<aside> 💡 Chely Wright released the album “Lifted off the Ground” on April 30, 2010 at the same time as releasing her memoir “Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Country Singer”. On May 5th, 2010, she came out publicly as a lesbian. The song “Like Me” was seen as one of the more overtly queer songs on the record, with lyrics like “And who's gonna end up holdin' your hand A beautiful woman or a tall, handsome man?” The song’s title is also the same title as the aforementioned memoir, so Chely places significance on this song in multiple instances. ‣

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Like Me Lyrics

Without your glasses you just plain can't see

Your favorite color for the most part is green

You're close to your grandma on your mother's side

You can count up on one hand the times you have lied

You won't eat a tomato on a double-dog dare

You don't think you're a beauty but you do like your hair

Your complex and tricky, yet someways you're not

You're up some, you're down some

You're cold and you're hot

And who's gonna end up holdin' your hand-

A beautiful woman or a tall, handsome man?

There's no doubt they'll love you, but it's yet to be seen:

Will anyone ever know you like me?

Will anyone ever know you like me?

You like plantin' flowers, that's heaven to you

Crack open a beer when you're planting through

You'll paint all your toenails if you have time,

while listening to Willie, Dylan and Pride

And who's gonna end up holdin' your hand-

A beautiful woman or a tall, handsome man?

There's no doubt they'll love you, but it's yet to be seen:

Will anyone ever know you like me?

You'd rather make-out then make love all night

You like if your bath is too hot

Your closet is cluttered with dress pants and Levis that you wish you'd never bought

And who's gonna end up holdin' your hand-

A beautiful woman or a tall, handsome man?

There's no doubt they'll love you, but it's yet to be seen:

Will anyone ever know you like me?

Will anyone ever know you like me?

Analysis and Links with Taylor’s Art

Taylor has mentioned lying multiple times across her career, and it could be her insinuating that she is not being honest about her life or sexuality, like the speaker is describing the muse of this song. Explore Taylor’s lying theme further here: Dishonesty/Lies/Not True/Liar/Deceive/Cheat/Bait and Switch/Lying/Duplicitous

Holding hands is an activity couples do mostly in public, so this chorus alludes to asking the muse who she is going to “go out in public” with. Taylor uses this theme in a similar way across her discography: Hand/Take My Hand/Dropped Your Hand/Touched my Hand/Holding Hands

Taylor in Wildest Dreams: “He’s so tall and handsome as hell” and also describes her lover as handsome and tall in Delicate: “Handsome you’re a mansion with a view” (a mansion can only have a view if it’s a tall building). In Superman, she combines both of the adjectives Chely uses in this song: “Tall, dark and beautifulTall/High Above

This line has a double meaning:

  1. Will anyone ever know that you like me in a romantic way? - expressing her anxiety around closeting
  2. Will anyone ever know you in the way that I know you? - expressing what she knows about this person, including their sexuality

Taylor has referenced flowers and gardening as one of her themes that links with her queerness. Some examples are: “when the flowers that we’d grown together died of thirst” from Clean and “we can plant a memory garden” from The Great War Garden

Taylor paints her toenails in one of her first music videos, released before this song came out. She also had a similar shot of her painted nails at the start of the Lavender Haze music video

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Taylor has referenced a closet multiple times in her art. Explore the theme here: Closet/Wardrobe

Taylor references Levis in her song Cardigan: I knew you dancin in your Levi’s drunk under a streetlight